It’s hard to believe, but another year is drawing to a close. To date, this has been a year of tremendous change as Full Speed became a teenager (!) and T.Puzzle jumped more solidly into the double-digit realm. It’s not the age-number per say, 13 and 11 respectively, but the growth and maturation I’ve seen from them. It’s been a lot to process as I am seeing more clearly the young men they are becoming.
T.Puzzle continues to surprise us. He developed a love of distance running. How Mad Dog and I produced a distance runner is still a bit mystifying, but it is awesome that T.Puzzle is finding his own interests and pursuits. LEGO construction and playing video games remain firmly at the top of his list, but nice to know that he likes to get up and go sometimes, too.
Full Speed became a middle-schooler this year (it starts in seventh grade in our region) and he has adjusted beautifully. He shows leadership to his classmates willingly coaching them through Algebra assignments, and has a zest for presentations in class. A recent assignment in Civics had him debating school politics and he was in his zone. Leadership qualities and a passionate debater, hmmm…does that sound like anyone we might know? He also learned that not every dream is realized as he tried out for his school’s soccer team and didn’t make the cut. My favorite part about this life lesson was his genuine happiness for a long-time friend and classmate who did make the team this year. It’s not to say Full Speed’s given up on soccer forever, but oh my, isn’t there a wonderful world of possibilities out there waiting for him?
One of the very best parts of 2017 was the addition of our newest family member, Miss Lady. She is by no means a perfect dog, but she absolutely has been the perfect dog for our family. She keeps things lively here which I’m not so sure our senior resident (Little Guy) appreciates.
If you ever need to feel like you are the most amazing being alive, come on over and hang out at our house for a while, Miss Lady will not disappoint with her enthusiastic snuggles and love for you.
Mad Dog continues to travel all over America and then some as the scope of the call centers he oversees grows and grows. As hard as it is to be away from him sometimes, I see how fulfilling his position is and know it is keeping him challenged and inspired. That’s truly all I want for all three of my boys, to be challenged and inspired.
As for me, I’ve made a little more space in my life for the things I enjoy. I continue to walk our dogs every day, have started a daily yoga routine and write as much as possible.
Life is short so whatever brings us joy is absolutely what we should pursue. It’s as simple as that.
Hope you had beauty-filled 2017 and that the lessons that lie ahead for all of us keep us growing in the direction of love.
Today is doomsday. This is my babysitter’s last day to help out during the week. I told her to have a ‘free day’ with the boys (which full disclosure, she actually wanted very much). That means she picked both boys up from school. That means I have several hours of free time. Let me repeat that, I have several hours of free time. A friend asked me what I was going to do. I didn’t have the foggiest idea. Oh sure, I know how to kill a few hours with errands or the occasional appointment. Several hours, well, that’s a whole different league. It’s a liberating feeling this free time to be spent alone. It also is kind of sad that I had to think very hard about what to do with it. This is what I came up with in no particular order: clothes shopping for myself (zero interruptions…it was divine), snack at Panera to do some writing including this blog post (I love, love, love to write) and to cap the night off, dinner with some girlfriends.
Who am I without my children to define my life or my time? Turns out I’m exactly the same. Same hair, same perspective and same joys and sorrows. The only difference is this quiet bubble that surrounds me wherever I go today.
I am certainly more of an observer of life than a participator. I leave full on life participation to the hands of my boys. Better enjoy the quiet while I can…
Full Speed loves kindergarten. He is reading, enjoying math and attempting to write. His writing is more like hieroglyphics than the actual written English language. I’d like to say what he lacks in style he makes up in enthusiasm (not so!). Sitting at a table and practicing handwriting is pretty excruciating when all you’d rather do is get up and run.
I know he can do it. He knows he can do it. He just doesn’t WANT to do it.
I’m trying all sorts of activities to keep him interested in strengthening his fine motor skills. Lacing objects is great because it uses all the same muscles as writing and hones visual perception (or something like that).
I even have T.Puzzle in on the action. His fine motor skills will be off the chain when he hits kindergarten, or will they?
Check out how it all went down as my boys attempted to lace a wooden slice of pizza:
I found it highly entertaining. At that moment I could care less about proper letter formation. All I could do was laugh.