This is an extremely busy time of year. For our family, it can feel even busier because we have birthdays and a wedding anniversary tucked in between all the major holidays. Somehow, we make it all work and manage to celebrate each and every milestone in our own way.
This morning as I began my walk to school with my recently turned older boys, T.Puzzle commented since now he is seven and Full Speed is nine, I should let them have a little more freedom. They both wanted to start walking independently earlier on our school route. Each had different points that they thought were suitable for me to turn back and let them walk the rest of the way on their own. I was open to hearing all of their ideas as I do see real maturity and growth in both of them. T.Puzzle had lagged behind as he often does and when he finally caught up to me to plead his case for more independence, he looked different to me. I didn’t know if it was a recent growth spurt or what exactly, but something certainly had changed. He seemed lighter. So light in fact, that I soon realized he didn’t have his backpack and we already had walked halfway to school.
Let’s just say, it’s real hard to convince your Mom for more independence if you can’t even remember your own backpack.
Better luck next birthday.